Talking to Kids About Politics and Elections

During election season, signs and ads for political candidates are everywhere. Unfortunately, a lot of the messaging on issues people care about is meant to stir anger.

It can be hard for parents to help kids understand what they see and hear, especially since kids and teens also get information about elections and candidates through social media, online sites, and friends.

But knowing what kids think about these issues and how they might affect your family is important. Talking about it not only can help promote learning and critical thinking, but also lets you clear up misconceptions your kids may have or calm their fears about the future.

How Can Parents Talk to Kids About Politics?

When discussing an election, start by asking your kids what they think and why. This shows that you value their opinions and want to hear what's on their minds. Younger kids might have questions about how elections work; older kids may share their feelings about politics.

If their opinions differ from yours, that's OK. Use it as a teaching opportunity: Why do they feel that way? Can they come up with examples to support their view? Engaging kids in this way helps them to develop their own opinions and learn how to have important conversations.

When talking with your kids:

• Keep it positive. In the heat of an election season, strong feelings about tough issues can spark disagreements. Use the opportunity to show kids how to voice differences of opinion with respect, strength, and conviction. Say what you don't like about a candidate or their position and explain what you do like about your candidate of choice. Encourage your kids to do the same. Focus on the positive attributes of your candidate — talk about what you're for and your kids will too.
• Be reassuring. Kids might be worried by what the candidates say about the economy or the job market. They might fear the family losing the house or a parent losing a job. Listen to their concerns and provide comfort. Tell your kids that you’ll keep talking to them about the important things after an election.
• Suggest they get involved, if they're interested. Many kids are interested in and concerned about current events. Taking action helps them feel empowered and effective, and builds problem-solving skills. Help kids think of what they can do. Talk about how small things can add up to make a big difference. Let your kids know that just like voting for a candidate can make a difference, so can working on an issue that you'd like to change.

Talk About the Importance of Voting

Talk with your kids about the electoral process and why voting is important. This not only gives them a mini lesson on how government affects the world, but also shows that every person's opinion counts. Though they can't vote yet, they can and should someday, so it's important that they start becoming informed.

If possible, take your kids with you into the voting booth on Election Day to show them firsthand how the process works. Be a role model by setting a positive example that lets them know you value the right to vote. Show your kids the importance of voting and they'll grow up knowing that every vote counts.

Politics can be tough, but engaging and talking to your kids about this and other hard topics helps them know that they can come to you anytime to talk about the big and small things.