3 Ways to Practice Gratitudeenteenshttps://kidshealth.org/EN/images/headers/T-practiceGratitude-enHD-AR1.jpgGratitude doesn't just feel good, it can be good for you. These 3 steps can help you start feeling more appreciative of the good things in your life.thanks, give, thanksgiving, appreciate, day, daily, every, each, habit, grateful, blessing, blessings, count, notice, identify, savor, express, say, thank you, kind, kindness, gratitude, pay it forward, helping, volunteering, optimism, optimistic, mindset, positive emotions, optimistic, thanks11/20/201309/10/201909/10/2019KidsHealth Behavioral Health Experts4a87429c-5a40-4b12-9f4e-051b7acef9eahttps://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/teens/gratitude-practice.html/<p>Everyone can benefit from making an effort to practice <a href="https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/teens/gratitude.html/">gratitude</a> every day. These 3 steps can help you start feeling more grateful, and appreciative of the good things in your life:</p> <ol class="kh_longline_list"> <li>Notice good things, look for them, appreciate them.</li> <li>Savor, absorb, and really pay attention to those good things.</li> <li>Express your gratitude to yourself, <a href="https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/teens/gratitude-worksheet.html/">write it down</a>, or thank someone.</li> </ol> <h3>Notice the Good Things in Your Life</h3> <p>Start to notice and identify the things you are grateful for. Tune in to the small everyday details of your life and notice the good things you might sometimes take for granted.</p> <p>Try these ideas:</p> <ul class="kh_longline_list"> <li><strong>Each day, think of 3 things you are grateful for.</strong> Nature. People. Community. Shelter. Creature comforts like a warm bed or a good meal. It's amazing what you notice when you focus on feeling grateful.</li> <li><strong>Start a gratitude journal.</strong> Making a commitment to writing down good things each day makes it more likely that we will notice good things as they happen.</li> <li><strong>Practice gratitude rituals.</strong> Some people say grace before a meal. Pausing in gratitude before eating doesn't have to be religious. It's a simple habit that helps us notice and appreciate the blessing of food on the table.</li> </ul> <p>Once you're aware of the blessings of everyday life, the next step is to savor them.</p> <h3>Savor the Feeling of Gratitude</h3> <p>There are moments when you naturally, right then and there, feel filled with gratitude. These are moments when you say to yourself, "Oh, wow, this is amazing!" or "How great is this!"</p> <p>Pause. Notice and absorb that feeling of true, genuine gratitude. Let it sink in. Soak it up. Savor your blessings in the moment they happen.</p> <h3>Express Gratitude</h3> <p>Expressing gratitude is more than courtesy, manners, or being polite. It's about showing your heartfelt appreciation. When you thank someone, you're also practicing the first two gratitude skills: you've noticed something good, and you've genuinely appreciated it.</p> <p>Try this:</p> <ul class="kh_longline_list"> <li><strong>Show your appreciation to someone who did something nice.</strong> Say: "It was really kind of you to&hellip;," "It really helped me out when you&hellip;," "You did me a big favor when&hellip;," "Thank you for listening when&hellip;," "I really appreciated it when you taught me&hellip;," or "Thank you for being there when&hellip;." You also can write your gratitude in a letter.</li> <li><strong>Express gratitude by doing a kindness.</strong> Gratitude might inspire you to return a favor, or act with kindness or thoughtfulness. Or you might see a situation when you can "pay it forward." Hold the door open for the person behind you, even if it means waiting a little longer than you normally would. Do someone else's chores without letting the person find out it was you. Notice how you feel afterward!</li> <li><strong>Tell the people in your life how you feel, what they mean to you</strong>. You don't have to be mushy or over-the-top. We all have our own style. But if you say what you feel in the right tone at the right moment, even a simple, "Mom, good dinner. Thanks!" means a lot.</li> </ul> <p>True gratitude doesn't leave you feeling like you owe other people something &mdash; after all, if you've done someone a favor, you probably don't want the person to feel like you expect something back in return. It's all about feeling good and creating a cycle of good.</p>Tres formas de mostrar gratitudEstos pasos pueden ser de ayuda para que empiece a sentirse más agradecido y sea capaz de valorar las cosas buenas de su vida.https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/es/teens/gratitude-practice-esp.html/647da8ab-f87a-4efa-9546-5c9ba2023e98
5 Ways to Know Your Feelings BetterEmotional awareness (knowing what we feel and why) helps us learn about ourselves and build good relationships. Here are 5 ways to get more in touch with your emotions.https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/teens/emotional-awareness.html/3ee7a1b2-b588-470c-8173-1dec09868ea7
Choosing Your MoodChoosing your mood means being in control of it instead of feeling like it's controlling you. Here are tips on how to create the right mood to help you succeed at what you're trying to do.https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/teens/choose-mood.html/635c789b-f333-458b-a1a6-714afae776b4
Emotional IntelligenceJust as IQ is a way of being academically smart, emotional intelligence (EQ) is a way of being people-smart. But unlike IQ, we can work on improving our EQ. Here are some tips.https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/teens/eq.html/1609e178-9261-4a8f-8ba7-097ea03c97d1
GratitudeGratitude doesn't just feel good. Focusing on what's good in our lives can also be good for us. Find out how in this article for teens.https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/teens/gratitude.html/27c1ca2e-ccaa-40bf-ac24-b81199cb95d4
Gratitude: A WorksheetFeeling grateful for what we have (instead of obsessing about what we don't) can help us get more out of life. This worksheet is designed to get you thinking about gratitude.https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/teens/gratitude-worksheet.html/57d4fa66-7ae8-4606-80ef-8b8ce8f390e2
OptimismOptimists see the good in things -- and science has discovered that optimists can do better in life. The good news is, even pessimists can be more optimistic. Find out how.https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/teens/optimism.html/60287970-7c25-4161-b708-203de2773c52
Understanding Your EmotionsEmotions help us relate to other people, know what we want, and make choices. Even "negative" emotions are useful. Find out how to understand emotions and use them effectively.https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/teens/understand-emotions.html/a34102e2-8f42-4764-8eba-708d9c55e09d
VolunteeringVolunteering gives you an opportunity to change lives, including your own. Get ideas on things you can do and tips on getting started in this article for teens.https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/teens/volunteering.html/77a599fe-2985-425d-b5c1-5a9ef85f57d6
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