About Abstinenceenparentshttps://kidshealth.org/EN/images/headers/P-birthContAbstin-enHD-AR1.jpgAbstinence is the only form of birth control that is 100% effective in preventing pregnancy. Abstinence also protects people against STDs.abstinence, teen pregnancy, sex, stds, talking about sex, facts of life, birds and bees, the sex talk, sex education, virginity12/18/200605/01/201905/01/2019Larissa Hirsch, MD05/01/2019c5b15fe3-33b0-478c-8cb0-0533ec471a80https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/parents/abstinence.html/<h3>What Is Abstinence?</h3> <p>Abstinence is choosing not to have sex.</p> <h3>How Does Abstinence Work?</h3> <p>Abstinence is the simplest form of <a href="https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/parents/about-bc.html/">birth control</a>. If two people don't have sex, sperm can't fertilize an egg and there's no possibility of pregnancy. Other forms of birth control:</p> <ul> <li>depend on barriers that prevent the sperm from reaching the egg (such as <a href="https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/parents/condoms.html/">condoms</a> or <a href="https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/parents/diaphragm.html/">diaphragms</a>)</li> <li>interfere with the <a href="https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/parents/talk-about-menstruation.html/">menstrual cycle</a> (as <a href="https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/parents/bcpills.html/">birth control pills</a> do)</li> </ul> <p>With abstinence, no barriers or pills are needed.</p> <p>A person doesn't have to be a virgin to practice abstinence. Sometimes, someone who has been having sex decides to stop doing so. A person who has been having sex can still choose abstinence to prevent pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) in the future.</p> <h3>How Well Does Abstinence Work?</h3> <p>Abstinence is the only form of birth control that always prevents pregnancy. Practicing abstinence ensures that a girl will not become pregnant because there is no chance for sperm to fertilize an egg.</p> <p>Many other birth control methods have high rates of success if used properly, but they can fail occasionally.</p> <h3>Does Abstinence Help Prevent STDs?</h3> <p>Abstinence protects people against <a href="https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/parents/talk-child-stds.html/">STDs</a> from vaginal sex. But STDs can also spread through oral-genital sex, anal sex, or even intimate skin-to-skin contact without actual penetration (for example, <a href="https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/parents/genital-warts.html/">genital warts</a> and <a href="https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/parents/herpes.html/">herpes</a> can spread this way).</p> <p><strong>Complete abstinence</strong> is the only way to guarantee protection against STDs. This means avoiding <strong>all</strong> types of intimate genital contact. Someone practicing complete abstinence does not have any type of intimate sexual contact, including oral sex. So there is no risk of getting an STD.</p> <p>Abstinence does not prevent <a href="https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/parents/hiv.html/">HIV/AIDS</a>, <a href="https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/parents/hepatitis-b.html/">hepatitis B</a>, and <a href="https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/parents/hepatitis-c.html/">hepatitis C</a> infections that can spread through nonsexual activities, like using contaminated needles for tattooing or injecting drugs or <a href="https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/en/parents/steroids.html/">steroids</a>.</p> <h3>Who Practices Abstinence?</h3> <p>Not having sex may seem easy because it's not doing anything. But peer pressure and things teens see on TV and in the movies can make the decision to practice abstinence difficult. If it seems like everybody else is having sex, some teens may feel they have to also.</p> <p>Help your kids understand that teasing or pressure from friends, a girlfriend, a boyfriend, or even the media shouldn't push them into something that's not right for them.</p> <p>Choosing abstinence is an important decision &mdash; and kids might not realize it, but most teens are not having sex.</p> <h3>How Can Parents Help?</h3> <p>Teens may have questions about making this choice or about other birth control methods. Make sure yours has an adult he or she can trust &mdash; you, a teacher, a counselor, a doctor, or a school nurse &mdash; who can provide answers.</p>Sobre la abstinencia sexualLa abstinencia sexual es el ├║nico tipo de anticoncepci├│n que siempre impide el embarazo.https://kidshealth.org/ws/RadyChildrens/es/parents/abstinence-esp.html/bb80dcb3-e35f-4e27-b9de-c655c14e5bf3
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