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Gun Safety

Many families keep a gun in the home. If you decide to keep a gun in your home, be sure it is stored safely and that all family members know the rules about handling guns.

What Is the Safest Way to Store a Gun?

If you have a gun at home, be sure to:

  • Keep the gun unloaded and locked up in a cabinet, safe, gun vault, or storage case.
  • Lock the bullets in a place separate from the gun.
  • Consider using a gun lock (a lock that makes the gun unable to fire).
  • Hide the keys (or passcode) to the locked storage. Only parents or other responsible adults should know how to unlock the storage boxes.

Why Is Proper Gun Storage So Important?

Protecting Children

Young children are curious. Even if you have talked to them many times about gun safety, they can't truly understand how dangerous guns are. If they come across a loaded gun, they can accidentally hurt or kill themselves or someone else.

Protecting Teens

Teens can be emotional and may act without thinking. If they have depression or are feeling down, they may see a gun as an easy way out. In fact, most teens and preteens who kill themselves use a gun from their home or from the home of a relative or friend. Teens should never be able to get to a gun and bullets without an adult being there.

People of any age who are depressed are at increased risk of suicide. If someone in the family has depression, or has had thoughts of suicide, all guns should be removed from the home. If the guns cannot be removed, it is even more important to store the gun unloaded and locked up with the bullets stored separately and keys hidden.

What About Guns in the Homes of Family & Friends?

If your child is going to someone's house, it's important to know if there are guns in the home. It may feel awkward to ask, but most people will understand that you're trying to protect your child.

You might try:

  • "My child is pretty curious. Is there a gun or anything else dangerous he might get into?"
  • "Is there a gun in your home?"
  • "Our doctor recommended that I check to make sure there are no guns where my child plays. Do you have any guns at home?"

It is safest to keep your child away from homes where there is a gun. If you do let your child play in a home where there is a gun, be sure that:

  • The gun is stored unloaded and locked up.
  • The bullets are locked up and stored separately.
  • All keys to the locks are hidden.

If Someone Is Carrying a Gun

Some people carry a gun for protection. But this actually makes it more likely that they’ll get hurt. Others carry a gun for attention. Some carry a gun because they’re thinking of hurting others or themselves.

In case kids encounter someone who claims to have a gun or shows a gun, teach them to:

  • Get away from the person quickly and quietly.
  • Tell a trusted adult immediately. If they can't find a teacher, parent, coach, or other adult, they should call 911.

What If Your Child Is Worried About Telling?

Some kids might not want people to find out that they reported a gun. Their school counselor, principal, teacher, or coach should know how to handle the situation without using their name. If they’re still concerned, they should call 911 and ask them to keep their identity private.

Reporting that someone is carrying a gun may save a life.

What Should Kids Understand About Guns?

It’s not kids’ responsibility to understand guns. This should be the adult’s job. Children and teens are often curious and impulsive. So even when adults give well-meaning warnings, kids often want to explore a gun if they find it. Their young minds are still developing, so it’s the adult’s duty to create “safety barriers” to help protect them. This is why safe gun storage is vital.

If Your Child Sees a Gun

If kids ask about guns, tell them guns are very dangerous and they should follow these safety rules if they see one:

  1. Stop what they're doing.
  2. Do not touch the gun, or allow anyone else to, even if it looks like a toy.
  3. Leave the area where the gun is.
  4. Tell an adult right away.

Keeping Kids Safe

If you allow your child or teen to use a gun for recreation with you or another adult, it is very important that you:

  • Store the gun unloaded and locked up. Do not give your child or teen the passcode or keys to get the gun out.
  • Make sure that your child or teen understands that it is never OK to handle a gun without a responsible adult there.
  • Teach your child or teen to assume a gun is loaded and never point a gun at someone.
  • Set a good example with your own safe gun handling practices.

What Else Should I Know?

Some people feel that keeping a gun at home will protect their family from an intruder. Unfortunately, a gun in the house is much more likely to hurt or kill a member of the household or a friend than an intruder.

A gun in the house also can be used to hurt or kill someone when a:

  • child or teen finds the gun and accidentally pulls the trigger
  • depressed teen or adult feels suicidal and there is a gun readily available
  • family argument gets out of control
  • family member or friend is mistaken for an intruder

Remember: The best way to prevent gun injuries is to never keep guns at home and avoid homes that do keep guns. If you do keep a gun at home, keep the gun unloaded and locked up with the bullets locked up and stored separately. Visit ProjectChildSafe.org for more information on gun safety.

Medically reviewed by: Meghan T. Walls, PsyD
Date reviewed: April 2023