Isn't every kid special? We think so. But what do we mean when we say "kids with
special needs"? This means any kid who might need extra help because of a medical,
emotional, or learning problem. These kids have special needs because they might need
medicine, therapy, or extra help in school — stuff other kids don't typically
need or only need once in a while.
Maybe you know of kids in your school who need a wheelchair
or use braces when they walk. Those kids have special needs. They not only need the
equipment that helps them get around, but they might need to have ramps or elevators
available. They also might need to get a special bus to school — one that lifts
them up into the bus so they don't have to get up the steps.
Kids who have illnesses, such as epilepsy or diabetes, would
have special needs, too. They might need medicine or other help as they go about their
day. Kids with sight
problems might use special apps, tablets, or computers to read. Those with hearing
or speech problems
would have special needs, too. A kid who has hearing trouble might need hearing aids
to hear and speech therapy, too, since it can be hard to say words correctly when
you can't hear very well.
Kids with learning problems often have special needs. Kids with Down
syndrome might go to a regular school and might even be in your class. But they
have special needs when it comes to learning, so an aide (someone to help) might come
with them to class.
You might be able to spot a few kids with special needs, but you probably don't
notice all of them. A kid could have a problem that isn't noticeable unless you know
the person well. For example, someone could have trouble with anxiety (worry), but
you wouldn't know it unless the kid told you about it. Privately, their parents, teachers,
and counselors may be working to help them worry less.
What's Life Like for a Kid With Special Needs?
Life can be extra-challenging for a kid with special needs. It might be harder
to do everyday stuff — like learning to read or, if a person has physical handicaps,
just getting around school or the mall. The good news is that parents, doctors, nurses,
therapists, teachers, and others can help. The goal is to help kids be as independent
Other kids also can be a big help. How? By being a friend. Kids who need a wheelchair
or have other health problems want friends just like you do. But meeting people and
making friends can be tough. Some kids might tease them or make fun of them. Be sure
to tell a teacher if you see someone being bullied
or teased. That's a very lonely feeling.
Also try to be helpful if you know someone with special needs. Ask if they would
like help with carrying their books or opening a door. Ask them to join you and your
friends at lunch. It's important not to be "overly helpful" when no help is needed.
Why? Because just like you, kids with special needs like to be as independent as they
Being friendly to kids with special needs is one of the best ways to be helpful.
As you get to know them, they may help you understand what it's like to be in their
shoes. And you'll be helping fill a very special need, one that everybody has —
the need for good friends.