When your child is ready for school, expect exciting new opportunities and challenges.
The right education
plan can help your child reach his or her full potential. But school is not just
about learning. Just like his or her peers, your child is navigating friendships and
social situations.
Follow this 8-step checklist to help your child succeed during the elementary school
years.
Step 1: Look for Support at School
Many kids with autism spectrum disorder are diagnosed by age 3 and receive early
intervention services. When they turn 3, they're eligible for additional services
at their local school district with the help of an individualized
education program (IEP).
The IEP may include therapy for speech/language, behavior, or sensory concerns.
In school, kids might get extra support through a classroom aide or during a "lunch
bunch" or social skills group.
Parents meet with an IEP team to determine a child's needs. While you can't insist
on certain services, you can appeal the IEP if you feel that the plan doesn't meet
your child's needs. The IEP is reviewed and updated each year, but you can ask for
updates before that to make sure your child is meeting goals.
Not all kids with autism need an IEP. Those who do not qualify for an IEP can get
educational assistance through a 504
education plan, which provides for accommodations in a regular classroom that
improve a child's learning experience.
Step 2: Get Tech Savvy
Technology can help kids with autism improve verbal skills, social skills, and
behavior. Through the use of educational apps and computer games and programs, kids
can increase their focus, get rewarded for good behavior, learn new skills, and have
fun doing it. Some devices (called "assistive devices") can even vocalize kids' thoughts
if they have trouble speaking.
Ask your child's doctor or speech or behavioral therapist for suggestions on what
kinds of apps or other media can help your child. Many games help to reinforce the
skills that kids are already learning in the classroom or during therapy sessions.
Step 3: Plan Playdates and Social Time
It's important for kids with autism to socialize with their peers, even if sometimes
it can be challenging for them. Playdates and other activities are some much-needed
chances to practice social skills and make new friends. Those who are struggling can
sign up for a social skills group, which helps with things like introducing yourself,
talking to others, reading social cues, and more.
When helping your child choose a playmate, look for someone who shares the same
interests. Pre-plan the activities (like going to a park, playground, or another activity
you know your child will enjoy), and avoid places with too much noise and stimulation
if you think it will overwhelm your child. Let your child know what to expect ahead
of time. Consider using a visual schedule with pictures or create social stories to
help "tell ahead" what will happen during a playdate.
Step 4: Get Kids Moving
Physical activity is also great for kids with autism — it can help improve
their fitness, coordination, strength, and body awareness. Regular physical activity
can help prevent childhood obesity. Exercise may also help decrease repetitive, self-stimulating
behaviors and improve attention.
Many sports programs, such as Special Olympics, Little League Challenger Division,
TOPSoccer and at the YMCA, can help your child to be physically active while also
meeting new friends who have similar challenges. Karate, therapeutic horseback riding
programs, and aquatic therapy are also great ways to keep kids active.