How Can You Deal With Sad Feelings?
Sad feelings don't have to take over your mood or ruin your day. You can do things
to help yourself feel better. You can do things to prevent sad feelings from sticking
around too long or becoming too strong.
Here are some positive ways to deal with sad feelings:
Notice how you feel and why. Knowing your emotions helps you understand
and accept yourself. If you feel sad, notice it — but don't dwell on it too
long or give it too much drama. Just tell yourself (or someone else) that you feel
sad. Try to figure out why you feel that way. Show yourself a little understanding
— there's probably a good reason you feel the way you do. It's OK. Remind yourself
that sadness will pass and you'll feel better.
Bounce back from disappointments or failures. When things don't
go your way, don't give up! Stay in the game. There's always next time. Give yourself
credit for trying. Then focus on what you need to work on and try again. Keep a positive
attitude.
Think positive. Even if you're sad, think of one or two good things
about yourself or your situation. Believe in yourself. Think about what you can do
and how things can get better. If you didn't get something you wanted, think of something
else that can make you happy. There's always something good — look for it!
Think of solutions. Coming up with ways to solve a problem or
cope with a situation can help you feel strong, confident, and good about yourself.
It's hard to stay sad when you're feeling so capable!
Get support. Even the most capable kids need support. The people
in your life who believe in you and care (like parents, friends, and teachers) can
comfort you when you feel sad. Sometimes, just listening and understanding what you're
going through is enough. Sometimes they can help you work out a problem or help you
think of happier things to get your mind off sadness or disappointment.
Put yourself in a good mood. Shake off a sad mood by doing things
that put you in a more positive mood. Play a game or sport, ride a bike, dance or
run, take a walk, make art or music, read, or spend time with someone you like. Relax,
have some fun, and feel better.
Learning to deal with sad feelings takes practice. But when you do things to take
care of sadness, you make room for more positive feelings. That means a happier you!
Date reviewed: August 2016