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I want to start using birth control but I don't want to tell my parents I'm having sex. Where/how can I get it without them finding out?
Bethany*

It can be difficult for teens to talk to their parents about being sexually active. But surprisingly, many parents are receptive to discussing sex and birth control. Still, if you can't talk to your folks, there is a lot you can do.

If you're interested in finding out your birth control options and getting sexual-health care, your first step should be to set up an appointment with your gynecologist or another health professional. Or make an appointment at your local Planned Parenthood or student health center if you're in college. Don't be afraid to discuss birth control with your doctor. Thanks to doctor-patient confidentiality, your doc can't spill about the Pill to your parents without your permission.

The Pill is covered by most health insurance, but that may not be an easy option if you are on your parents' plan. Luckily, the Pill is available for only $20 to $50 a month, depending on type.

Just remember that if you do go on the Pill, it's not a free pass to unprotected sex. You should still make sure your partner always wears a condom to protect against STDS. Fortunately, most Planned Parenthoods and student centers have condoms for either next-to-nothing or free.

For more information, check out these articles:
About Birth Control: What You Need to Know
Birth Control Pill
Birth Control Methods: How Well Do They Work?
Condom
About Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs)

Reviewed by: Larissa Hirsch, MD
Date reviewed: May 2007

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