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What Kids Say About: School
It's that time of year. The new school year is getting going — or already has — for millions of kids. We know everyone likes summer vacation more, but when we asked kids if they liked school, would you believe many of them said ...YES?
No, they don't love each second, every pop quiz and art project gone wrong. But on most days, 65% of kids said they liked school a lot (25%) or some (40%).
But what about the other 35%? We asked 965 kids, so that means about 337 kids were not happy on schooldays. On most days, 13% of those kids said they disliked it some and 22% said they disliked school a lot. That's a problem considering many kids spend 180 days a year in school.
Boys Are Less Happy
Girls were generally happier than boys, with 29% of girls saying they liked school a lot compared with 21% of boys. Similarly, 44% of girls said they liked school some, while only 35% of boys said that.
When it came to disliking school, here's how kids answered:
If kids aren't happy at school, it's usually because of some problem — or a group of problems. It could be low grades, trouble with friends, or problems at home. Kids can find help by talking to a counselor, teacher, or another adult at school. But more than half of the kids said they would find it difficult or impossible to use this kind of help.
Without seeking help, kids are less likely to solve the problems they're having. Grades may get worse, a bully may keep on bullying, and worry over a family situation could keep getting in the way.
It Can Be Hard to Ask for Help
Boys, who are more likely to dislike school, also are the least likely to seek out help from a school counselor or staff member. Overall, about 60% of kids said it would be at least a little hard to talk to a school official about their problems. But twice as many boys as girls said they would never talk to an adult at school about their problems.
Doctors and other experts say that kids might not seek help for the following reasons:
But here are some good reasons to seek help anyway:
If you start talking about a problem and beginning to solve it, you just might find you don't dislike school so much anymore. You might start noticing that school is the place where your friends make you laugh, you learn new things, and your locker opens on the first try — at least on most days!