Part of being a responsible babysitter is knowing when (and where) to reach out for help. Naturally, if little Justin throws a tantrum because you won't let him eat a peanut butter bar, that's something to handle on your own. But what if you think he ate that peanut butter bar and you know he has a nut allergy? That's when it's time to call a parent.
Who to Call First
In general, you want to call a child's parents first when you need help. But different parents do things differently. Ask the parents what they prefer.
There are exceptions to the call-a-parent-first rule. In a real emergency where seconds count, like if a child is badly injured, has stopped breathing, or isn't responding to you, dial 911 first and then call the parents. (Don't panic, though, these things hardly ever happen on babysitting jobs!)
How to Reach a Parent
Before the parents leave, get the following numbers:
a cell phone or beeper number (if they have one)
the number for the place where the parents will be. Don't just get a location, such as an employer or restaurant name. Ask the parents to provide a specific phone number.
Ask the parents to post a list of emergency numbers next to the phone or on the fridge. If the house you're sitting in doesn't have a landline, make sure your cell phone is always charged.
Obviously, 911 is the first call to make in case of fire or other emergency. But not all emergencies demand a 911 response. So ask the parents to post the following numbers and know where they are:
the national poison control number (1-800-222-1222)
a phone number for the children's doctor (parents usually want you to call them before calling the doctor — and if it's an emergency, you'll want to dial 911 first)
phone numbers for a few trusted neighbors
phone numbers for any relatives or close friends who live in the area
If you babysit for the same family regularly, you might want to enter these numbers into your phone contacts.
If an emergency comes up, it's not a reflection on you and your babysitting skills — but how well you handle an emergency is. Calling for help is the right thing to do, so don't be afraid to do so. Parents understand that it's impossible to avoid mishaps all the time!