Holding Good Meetings
One key to a good meeting is having a leader, who should help the group stay focused. It doesn't have to be the same person every time. In fact, it's better if it's not. It's a good idea to talk about how the work is going, and if anyone needs help.
What if you're not the leader? Important roles to play during a meeting include:
- The starter makes suggestions and offers ideas.
- The asker asks members to share information or ideas on a topic.
- The peacemaker looks at opposing views and finds something useful in each of them, helping people work out differences.
And try not to play any of these negative roles:
- The non-participant does not contribute and/or discourages the others.
- "Captain Critical" responds to other people's ideas with criticism.
- The dominator interrupts and talks more than listens.
- The clown distracts the group and keeps it from focusing on the work.
If Problems Arise
Just as it takes work to complete your project, it also takes work to make a group successful. Maybe you can't stand the way one group member always talks over other people or you're sick of one of your group members being a non-participant. The best approach is to try to talk about the problems, in a nice way.
Bring your concerns up gently with the group as a whole. (It's a bad idea to whisper to a few group members to try to get back-up. A good group requires honesty and everyone's involvement.) You might say, "Sara, it hurts my feelings when you interrupt me when I'm trying to say something." Or, to someone who's not doing his share of the work, "Jesse, what part of the research do you want to do?" If you can't solve these problems on your own, talk to your teacher.
A word on parental involvement. It's natural to ask your mom or dad for help on a big project. It's fine if they give you advice and encouragement. But it's not OK for them to do the actual work for you. They shouldn't do your research or write the letters on your poster — even if they can do it perfectly. A project, like other homework, is to help you learn by doing.
If a parent is too involved, bring it up with your teacher or with the group as a whole. You don't have to be mean — just say, "It's nice that Billy's mom is helping, but I think Mrs. Brown wants us to do the work ourselves."
Usually, group projects end with a presentation to the class. Then, the teacher gives your project a grade. If you cooperate and do your best, you just might be sharing an "A"!
Reviewed by: Steven Dowshen, MD
Date reviewed: March 2010
Originally reviewed by: Chris Cortellessa, M.Ed, NCC